Do this rirual before sun rise. Cast the circle and light the incense( lotus or Dragons blood ) . The candles should be either red or black.  Then place one to seven tarot cards. Each one for the day of the week. Speak to lilith in your own words ask her for gudiance and knowledge on whats to come. This ritual can be done once a day or weekly.  Speak to Lilith about your love for her.